So you like the idea of a deeply relaxed and gentle birth?
But what does a gentle birth really mean and can it be left to chance?
Having a gentle birth implies that you want your baby to be born safely, gently and easily into this world. This means you being respected and supported in your pregnancy choices and having a respectful partnership of care between you and your midwife or obstetrician. Having access to accurate information to make informed decisions during pregnancy and the labour process is essential. So that puts the onus on Mother and partner to become as educated as possible and the best antenatal independent preparation courses I feel is Hypnobirthing. #hypnobirthingireland #hypnobirthingdublin
Now I am biased as I have been teaching this incredible method of teaching for the last 10 years combining effective breathwork, CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy) NLP (Neuro linguistic programming) and mindfulness techniques. I have seen the positive effects of Hypnobirthing in my work as a community midwife.
Hypnobirthing teaches a Mother how to condition her body to relax and why. Research tells us that the more relaxed a mother is the easier her labour will be. Hypnobirthing language is gentle, positive and soft ie “Mind and body working together in harmony…every surge brings my baby closer to me....”. Mothers get to know and trust their internal world. Hypnobirthing offers effective hypnotherapy techniques and coping strategies and after attending a series of classes and practiced every day, mothers feel different, feeling more excited and ready to meet their new babies.
However Hypnobirthing education also teaches a mother how to negotiate with her chosen hospital in how her labour is managed. This information is indispensable. All hospitals have their own guidelines based loosely around the NICE Guidelines and each hospital does their own thing and that’s a blog in itself! All hospitals offer different models of pregnancy care ie midwifery led care clinics, early discharge, homebirth options which have been measured in data to support physiological birth as described as the ‘supported physiological pathway’ of the National Maternity Strategy (2016). https://www.gov.ie/en/publication/0ac5a8-national-maternity-strategy-creating-a-better-future-together-2016-2/ . So researching a model of care that best suits your philosophy can take a bit of planning and research.
The consumer guide to maternity services in Ireland is a great resource to start researching from before you choose your hospital. http://www.bump2babe.ie/
The Coombe Antenatal Classes are very progressive in looking at comfort measures to support labouring women and in particular hydrotherapy and water immersion in labour. Each labouring room in the Coombe has its own ensuite bathroom while the vast majority of hospitals in Ireland do not. I would presume that would be important to you? These are good questions to ask too.
On another note the Coombe has just published important research on the safety and the gentleness of water birth and water immersion. https://bmjopen.bmj.com/content/10/12/e038080
The National Maternity Hospital Holles St equally promote comfort measures in their antenatal classes and have a robust domino scheme which promotes early discharge and homebirth primarily for women in South County Dublin. They have just opened up a new comfortable pool room which takes the emphasis off the medicalised look and has soft murals and supports for the birthing Mother. Mullingar Regional hospital too have opened up a ‘serenity suite’ promoting again a more holistic approach for birthing mothers in the midlands.
So my advice to any woman who are looking for a gentle birth is not to leave it to chance and to research research research and find out what resonates with you. The choices you make ante-natally will have a huge effect on the type of birth you have. If you require any further advice or information please contact me as I am always happy to chat.
Wishing you all the best for your celebration of birth. #naturalbirthcanbepainfree
Brenda xx
www.birthingwithconfidence.ie
Community Midwife, Hypnotherapist, Hypnobirthing teacher and Lactation consultant (IBCLC)
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